We all exist in our individual worlds that consist of individual values, beliefs, habits, fears, emotions and experiences. Our responses to the outer world are largely based on these subconscious patterns; something that makes each one of us unique. Life doesnt appear to be a place with equal opportunities; is this the reality or is it just because our ability to respond to different situations differ? Something that worked for someone, might not work for you in the similar context. With every new challenge coming our way we are tested and keep rebuilding our subconscious modules in a cyclical manner. Success and failure are byproducts; but when its not success we consider it failure and not the feedback; and that makes all the difference.
Like our car, it is important for regularly service our mind and if needed then overhaul it completely. So that when you go through bumpy roads your car doesnt breaks down. So while you are careful on smooth metallic roads because of speedy traffic, you are also equally aware and mindful while passing through rough roads. Your mindfulness helps you everywhere. Once you develop such mindset, this automatically switch to auto mode where things start going in your favour with much conscious effort.
Life still keep hitting at its own pace like before, but now you respond differently, and so are the experiences and the outcomes. Our stories, our challenges, our responses and rewards might not be similar but at one point of time we can enjoy similar mindsets; growth oriented mindsets.
